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Stephen Ministers:
Who Will Know…about my problem if I talk
to a Stephen Minister? This is a question many people ask. Confidentiality
is the cornerstone of Stephen Ministry. No one knows what is talked about in
a caring relationship except for the person and the Stephen Minister. If you
have a burden you need to share with a Stephen Minister, contact Carol
Shake, Stephen Ministry coordinator, at 842-9169.
Frequently
friends will ask, “I know you’re involved in Stephen Ministry. Can you tell
me exactly what a Stephen Minister is?” I like to explain that Stephen
Ministers are “After People.”
Stephen Ministers
are there:
…after you’ve
washed and returned the last casserole dish.
…after the
divorce papers have been served and the bottom falls out of your life.
…after the last
child honks the horn, waves, and drives away – and the house suddenly seems
incredibly empty.
…after you
arrive home following the funeral service and the emotions you’ve held at
bay coming crashing in on you.
…after the
relationship has ended but the wounds are still bleeding and painful.
…after the
doctors have said, “There’s nothing more we can do.”
…after the door
has slammed shut – for the very last time.
…after the phone
call you’d always hoped you’d never get.
…after you
realize the hands on the gold watch you received at your retirement party
move more slowly than you ever imagined.
…after the
nursing home director shakes your hand and says, “Welcome to your new home.”
…after the gavel
goes down, the handcuffs go on, and your loved one is led away.
…after the baby
has arrived, putting more demands on you than you ever dreamed possible.
…after you find
the pink slip inserted with what is now your final paycheck.
…after your
family and friends have heard your story one too many times, but you still
need to talk it out.
Stephen Ministers
are the “After People.” We are
ready to come alongside you – or your friends, neighbors, coworkers, or
relatives – and provide comfort and support for as long “after” as we are
needed.
Adapted from a presentation made during a
worship service by Enie Bourland, a lay Stephen Leader at Houston’s First
Baptist Church in Houston, Texas
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